Active Relationship

A couple of years ago I remember the looks of pity my friend Jennifer would get when she mentioned she’d been trying an online dating site. I must admit, at the time, I too thought she must be desperate; couldn’t she meet anyone in ‘real’ life? Didn’t she meet people at work, or at parties? Read the rest of this entry »

Dating advice is all over the internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on TV. Dating advice is so easy to give that an eight-year-old even wrote a book about it. keeping it straightforward. Read the rest of this entry »

At some point in our lives we have all had our partner in a mood with us for something, this is just a fact of life. Of course on most occassions they usually have a very good reason for it. On the other hand everyone does something wrong at some point in their lives but whenever a woman seems to do it you don’t tend to make as much of a big thing out of it right? Read the rest of this entry »

One of the important part of a communication process is body language. Usually, it can influence a negative or positive reaction to the person you are talking with.

Actions made by your lips, eyes and eyebrows, arms or any other part of your body creates the body language perceived by others unknowingly to the speaker.

When you speak or actually even when not speaking, it is quite beneficial to know your body actions so that you do not get a negative impression or unwanted reaction from others without knowing it. Below are examples on how body language speaks.

Eyes And Eyebrows:

‘A window to our soul’ quite deep and cryptic as a quoted phrase for the eyes and eyebrows but it is true to some extent to either confirm or say something else from what is spoken about. Sometimes, the listener doubts or misunderstood what one is saying just looking at your eyes and eyebrows.

The movements and position of these body parts are usually the first to be noticed upon face to face communication.

A particular example and a popular one at that is the impression you show if you are apprehensive or in a burdened mood is when your eyebrows meet in the middle as with frowning. One may think you?re faking it and actually mad even if you speak slowly and with a soft voice.

Lips:

The mouth is usually another part of your body which can speak about your mood.

With differences in positions and shapes particularly the lips and how they form, it is very common to have universal concepts regarding how one feel during a conversation just by noticing one’s mouth. Here are some of those concepts:

When one is holding back waits for affirmation or action from the other conversant, the lower lips are usually retracted with the upper teeth almost biting it. Sometimes, this is common for those people who are holding back.

If it is the other way around where the upper lip and lower teeth almost biting it, the person seems to keep mixed reactions and is holding back as with a reaction to what is being said by the other.

Some significant implications of these small movements may create a reaction to either stop or continue the conversation process to the person seeing them.

Extremities:

For more profound or for those that create heavier impact, one can notice how the arms and legs create a larger notions of body language.

Those that show doubt, mistrust, impatience, or closed-mindedness usually cross their arms over their chest. By having one leg stepped away and angled while the body rest in the other leg, this can create or heightened an unfriendly gesture towards the other.

Body language can do you good if confirms what you are saying. One way to harness it I actually practice and internalize a reverse position where you are the one seeing those actions as you speak. You then can ask yourself, ?boy is that what I really mean?? and then be reminded that actions speak louder than words.  Next time, you will be more conscious on how your body acts while you speak or even when not.

4 Tips To Talk Dirty And Spice Up Your Relationship With Your Boyfriend

If you hesitate to talk dirty with your boyfriend, something is missing in your relationship. You might be having a great relationship with your boyfriend, but the inability to talk dirty reflects a lack of passion, thrill, joy, and fire in your relationship. So, start talking dirty with your boyfriend and spice up your relationship.

You might be under the misconception that men don?t appreciate girls who talk dirty. You might be afraid of being laughed at, ridiculed, or even rejected. But none of this will happen! If you begin talking dirty, you will be giving your boyfriend a pleasant surprise. Studies show the men love it when their women say dirty things to them. To put it simply, talking dirty can greatly enhance the quality of your relationship.

Are you finding it difficult to start? Are you afraid to talk dirty with your boyfriend? Do you feel that talking dirty is something that ?good? girls don?t do? Here are some great tips to help you feel more confident.

1. Let the Relationship Develop into an Intimate Phase

Never make the mistake of talking dirty to your boyfriend in the initial phases of the relationship. This will break and not raise your relationship to delightful heights. Dirty talk is delightful only when you have strong feelings for each other.

Wait for the relationship to grow and blossom. Know each other well and learn to feel comfortable in each other?s presence. You are now setting the right atmosphere for effective dirty talk.

2. Be Confident

You can wreck the joys of dirty talking by exhibiting fear or guilt. Talk confidently! As previously mentioned, your boyfriend will get a pleasant surprise. Soon he will be talking dirty too, and you will find that you have added a lot of spice to your relationship.

3. Create the Right Environment

Do not just start talking dirty. Start by having a light, lively, humorous chat with your boyfriend in a secluded and romantic place. Find out about your boyfriend?s mood at that moment. Gradually, lead the conversation to more erotic topics.

4. Dirty Phone Talk

If you are too shy to talk dirty face to face, try having a dirty telephonic conversation. Talking dirty over the phone can be a delightful experience. The facts that you cannot see each other?s faces, but can only hear sexy, sibilant whispers, make it all the more exciting.

Are you still hesitating to start talking dirty to your boyfriend? Banish all feelings of guilt. Talking dirty has been proved to be a great relationship enhancer. It can bring you closer to your boyfriend and prevent future break ups and heart breaks. However, it is a skill, and like all skills, it has to be carefully cultivated. Read more about erotic topics to get great ideas.

How successful you are in enhancing your relationship by talking dirty to your boyfriend depends on your boyfriend?s feelings for you, your own confidence, the quality of your relationship, and how long you have been together.