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Tricky; the first word that comes to mind when you try to read tell-tale signs of whether she is interested in you or his small talk is a means to drive a wedge between the gates. Though are many theories that go around telling you how to read signs of flirting, you cannot take the guidebook very seriously. The guidebook will sure make you watch out for the signs, but to be sure you have to use your grey-matter, too.

Though most signs of cupid’s arrows are common to both the genders, there are some which are special to each one of them.

Common Signs:

If your name appears frequently in his/her conversation, you know cupid is working overtime.

If the teeth are flashing a lot or lips are drawn in a happy line in your presence (Smiling!).

You haven’t counted what you like and what you don’t like, but the cupid-stricken is out to take an inventory of your interests.

Trying to very close? Read the sign. Sure sign of flirting.

Mostly leans towards you while sitting or standing? She/he is out to get you!

Okay.  So how do women differ from men in their flirting gestures? Women are more subtle when sending out signals. If your antenna is powerful and your grey cells work overtime in matters of the heart, you will catch these in a jiffy! Else, come back and read this.

By far the most interesting sign of flirting is when someone tries to touch your knees or arms. In most cases, it might seem unintended or not purposeful; however, this one sign can be construed as one of the sure signs. But beware! Watch out for a couple of more signs before actually responding to it.

Signals That A Guy Likes You:

The testosterone gesture (a new invention!):  If he flexes and swaggers his muscles, lo and behold! The very basic sign that a man could give; this is a show of masculinity. Most in the animal kingdom do it, may it be peacock spreading his plume or the little bird engaging in dance to attract his partner, only they don’t flex muscles, but do show their assets off by making a display of it.

First he tries to catch your eyes.  Then holds your glance then looks away only to come back again.  He sure wants to know you better and is sending out clues that he likes you.  He may not hold your eyes, but the look going away and coming back speaks volumes of a thundering heart wanting to know you better and what better ways to tell a guy likes you.

The normally thunderous man suddenly lowers his voice, wants to know your likes and dislikes, engages you in long talks about right and wrong, is overly protective of your future – your education and career have a greater meaning for him.

He is fondling a cigarette or chain.  Hmm… he wants to be more intimate.  Run, if you fear getting drowned in his masculinity. These are certain clues that he likes you.

He touches you gently or softly to drive home that he is friendly and this one of the surer ways to tell a guy likes you.

If his constantly goes to his hair, patting it into place, he wants to look good for you. The same goes if he smoothens his dress.

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You:

Her glances are trained on you when you are not watching her. Each time you see her, she moves her eyes away it gives you a feeling she had been watching you all the while.

If the smile is genuine with a sparkle of the teeth and she has a glint in her eye, you know her smile is not forced.  She is enjoying your happiness.  This is the best way you are on the way!

For her all roads lead to Rome through you.  She is going out of the way to make sure you notice her.  She slightly raises her voice when you are crossing the group she is in or makes slight adjustments to her hair, skirt etc when you are glancing her way.

She takes off her shoes or lets her shoe hang off the toes; takes her ear ring off, these are suggestive of "undressing." She wants to be intimate. However, be careful to look for other signs, too.

She initiates the talk. She could start from anywhere but this is a sure sign she is interested in you.  You tell her your name and she repeats it for you.  She pulls your ear close to hers to tell you a secret.  She is giving a whiff of her perfume, inviting a response from you.

Your jokes may not bring the whole house down with laughter but your jokes, sure has her holding her ribs.  If she responds with exclamations for all your achievements, small or big, the green signal is on.

Does she ask you about movies, dance, or dinner better book the tickets for the show, she is going to ask you out on date soon enough!

If she touches you anywhere, overtly or covertly, more than a few times during the evening, you are sure she wants to know you better…go ahead, your evening is set.

A word of caution, though, you can be certain that these obvious signs of flirting are only indicative.  In the case of women, you will do well not to jump to conclusions looking at one or two signs.  It is very easy to misinterpret friendly gestures and signs of flirting, especially in the case of women.

Only follow your heart, if you are sure you have read the signs properly. You could end up at the wrong end of the stick for sexual harassment if you misread the signs.

Girls you might feel men are always meant to run after you.  There are those of the male species who like girls running after them. Reading a man is much easier than reading woman.  However men like their women to be coy, shy, and not very overt in showing her interest.  You have to tread a very safe line.

Happy flirting!

The majority of people who ever lived around other people have, at one time or another, been attracted to someone of the opposite sex. This often begins to happen sometime during the teen years. It can be extremely difficult to determine whether the person in whom you are interested is also interested in you.  The fact that this attraction is occurring at one of the most vulnerable, confusing times in a person’s life does not help matters in the least.  Teens frequently spend hours trying to decide whether the person they are attracted to feels the same way toward them.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could just walk up to that person and say, 'Are you interested in me?' Unfortunately, though, consider for a moment just how humiliating such an experience could potentially be. For this reason, many books have been published on dating tips for teens that try to provide the reader with definite clues about whether someone is showing signs of flirting with them. In this article, we’ll explore a few of the signs that may lead a girl or a guy to think that someone is flirting with her or him.

For the ladies who are reading, one of the biggest signs that a guy is seriously interested is that, whenever you are present, he starts showing off or boasting about his physical prowess. Even though this may sound like caveman language, this is a guy’s most frequent - and blatant way of demonstrating interest. Worse, and possibly more annoying, he may show off to everyone else around you and act as though he is totally ignoring you, at least initially. From time to time, he may glance your way or look to see whether you are noticing or watching him.

If you give no sign of noticing him or paying attention to him, he will do one of two things. Either he will ignore you completely, deciding that you are not worth the trouble, or he will become even more obvious about strutting his stuff. So how will this guy decide that you are interested in him? Trying a few of these teen flirting tips will help make it evident.

Guys, if the lady is ignoring you totally, now is probably the time to back out gracefully. She isn’t interested. If, however, she keeps glancing over at you, just catching your eye, then looks away, there is a pretty good chance that she is interested. If you catch her eye and hold it for a moment, she may, if she is interested and somewhat confident in herself, lick her lips or play with her hair or smile at you. This is a pretty good indicator that, if you go over and talk to her, she will probably welcome your attention.

If neither one of you have yet spoken, how will you know for sure that you are interested in one another? Consider a few more of these teen flirting tips. Above all, remain cool and have some fun with this. Consider it a chance to have a friendly encounter getting to know another person; don’t focus on this encounter as if the rest of your mutual lives will depend on whether or not you say and do all the right things. Both guys and girls should try to stay relaxed and enjoy the encounter, rather than become tense and fearful.

Men may joke a lot about women taking excessive time to get ready for dates or other events, but, let’s face it, for men, attraction often begins with visual cues. So, even though you may take a lot of teasing for it, one of the best teen flirting tips you can learn is to dress for the occasion. On the contrary, women are more dependent on mood and situational cues for romantic attraction, so guys, don’t be afraid to show that you are interested and maybe even a little sensitive.

All of these teen flirting tips are useful, but unless someone begins a conversation, things can go nowhere quickly. Both girls and guys should actively listen to the conversation and express interest in one another’s responses. Remember, however, that communication is much more than merely verbal; the largest majority of communication occurs with nonverbal cues such as body movements, or body language, and gestures, looks, and touch.

Both guys and girls who are interested in meeting someone new and potentially fun should try some of these teen flirting tips. Perhaps the person will be the man or woman of your dreams; more likely they are going to be potential friends or acquaintances. Don’t consider every encounter the one destined to provide your soul mate. On the other hand, if you don’t have encounters with new people, you aren’t very likely to meet your soul mate.