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How Does Age Factor Into A Relationship When It Comes To Love?

January 19, 2012 By Leave a Comment


Is age an important factor when it comes to love? While some people do not give age so much of importance while dating, there are others who will only date someone their own age. Is there a thing known as age appropriate dating? Younger men dating older women and older men dating younger women has been in practice for many decades.

What three issues you need to know about age factor in a relationship, when it comes to love are below:

  1. When you are getting into a relationship with someone who is not your age, there are many things that can go wrong. Age does influence relationships and when there is a difference of many years, it can have a profound impact on the way the relationship moves forward.
  2. There can be biological issues that you need to deal with when you are dating someone who is older. As a person ages there are certain biological changes that take place in the body and this can influence the behavior of that individual. A younger person dating an older person would need to slow down his/her pace according to their partner. The level of physical activity may be significantly reduced in an older person and it is important to remember it while planning a date.
  3. The likes and dislikes of people who have an age difference would be more compared to couples who are of the same age. You would need to understand that your partner may not have the same preference for activities that you like.

Age is a personal thing and it does not really matter to a couple in love, as they are happy in their relationship. If you are open and truthful in your relationship age factor need not become such an important issue and just like other challenges, it can be overcome easily.

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How Do You Know When You Are Falling In Love?

January 19, 2012 By Leave a Comment


How does a person know that they are falling in love?

Are there signs that you can notice that you are in love?

Here are my Top 10 Signals To Tell If You Are Falling In Love

  1. You keep thinking about that person all the time. All your thoughts are filled with the happy moments that you two had spent together.
  1. Everything that you do or say reminds you of them. You will try to relate anything that you do in daily life with the memories associated with them.
  1. You will start paying more attention to the way you dress and how your hair is styled.
  1. You will start spending less time with your family and friends and more time with them. Even after spending many hours with them you will still feel the need to spend some more time with your loved one.
  1. Even when you are surrounded by other people your thoughts are occupied with them. You might be less attentive to what other people are saying or doing as you seem lost in your thoughts.
  1.  Your heart starts beating faster or you are tongue tied in their presence.
  1. You want to know about their likes, dislikes and everything else related to their life.
  1. You start feeling that they are the most attractive person in the world and no one matches to their looks and charm.
  2. You start becoming possessive about them and would not like to share their time with anyone else.
  1. You start feeling that all your life revolves around them and look forward to meeting them daily.

These are just some signals that you are falling in love and experiencing one of the most beautiful feelings known to mankind.

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Falling In Love With A Friend

October 30, 2010 By 1 Comment

When you spend time with a person, you get to know their likes and dislikes pretty well. If you share these likes and dislikes, a friendship begins. As your friendship grows, you share more things with each other. If this person is of the opposite sex, you may enjoy each other’s company on a plutonic level, or you may share desires and feeling with each other, and a sexual relationship may develop. This relationship is the beginning of falling in love.

If the relationship stays plutonic, you may cultivate a strong bond of friendship. One may share intimate conversations about personal feelings, such as boy or girl friends, family or business problems, good news or bad news. This personal closeness may be perceived by others as a relationship. Friendship is a relationship that must be worked at if one wants to keep it strong. The same is also true of keeping a relationship of a more loving and sexual nature. If you want to keep a relationship good, you must invest time and energy to keep it strong. Any close relationship also means an honest relationship. Not being honest with the other person is one way to lessen or lose a relationship.

There are several pros to falling in love with a friend. The awkward stages of getting to know each other have already been attained. Each person already knows if they are compatible other than in a sexual way. The beginning of a relationship is a strong emotional time, and being friends can help make this a very enjoyable time. After the sexual attraction, each person must decide whether they want to continue the relationship. For couples that begin without first being friends, this is the next stage of the relationship, determining whether or not each person is friendship compatible.

If there is compatibility between the two people, then the relationship may continue for a long time, as long as each person contributes to the growth of the friendship. This is the true relationship, the magic of two people sharing their lives together. From the opposite point of view, there are some cons to falling in love with a friend. The person you fall in love with is a very close friend, someone you developed a strong friendship with, and that you confide in. One may find the sexual relationship awkward, and this may lead to a broken friendship. Once two people enter into a sexual partnership, and the relationship does not last, the friendship tends to suffer.

Each person sees the other in a different way, and the closeness of friends may then feel awkward because of the intimacy. I have had the privilege of being involved in both situations. I fell in love with someone before we became friends, and I had an enjoyable relationship. Unfortunately, it did not last because we did not have a compatibility with each other. On the other hand, I developed a strong friendship with another person, and eventually fell in love. This is a lasting relationship to this day. Point of interest is that either situation could work for you. It just happened that a friendship turned into a loving relationship for me.

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Benefits Of Being And Staying Married

October 24, 2010 By Leave a Comment

The number of couples rethinking their relationship and either spouse filing for divorce is a figure that keeps rising. The figures do not lie, although one thing that couples may wish to rethink are the benefits of a happy marriage and what it can do for one's health, finances and emotional state.

Studies show that married people suffer from less health risks than those who aren't married. Married people enjoy longer life spans and lower risks of heart disease, depression, back pain and alcoholism.

It is usually the husbands who have more to gain with their health, although both men and women enjoy longer, happier and healthier lives if they are married. Women, on the other hand, have more financial advantages.

The average married couple believes that having the right commitment is the secret to their long, happy, married lives. These couples value the sacredness of marriage and believe in hard work and commitment to each other. Having similar values, as well as common passions and interests is also helpful in keeping these couples together.

Living in with your significant other before marriage isn't always the best thing to do, as the average married couple who has been together for years before matrimony has a greater tendency to lose interest and/or commitment and get divorced eventually. For cohabiting couples, the motivation to resolve conflicts isn't as great as the average married couple. Many believe, though, that cohabitation is the same deal as marriage, only without a marriage certificate. The improved self-esteem, health and wealth of married couples isn't usually enjoyed by live-in couples, however. In fact, based on the above studies, cohabiting couples are pretty much in the same boat as singles. This may be due to cohabiting couples being more concerned with their own welfare as man and woman separately, rather than the other partner's, or the couple's welfare.

For all the benefits that married couples have over singles and cohabitants, there is one area where they don't do so well. The above studies show that men and women usually gain weight following marriage.

Getting a divorce is something all married couples need to be on the lookout for, as this could be a harbinger of bad health or other emotional problems. This is an even worse, or equal stress factor as the usual work-related stress singles and married people go through.

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Ways To Get Back Together With Ex-Boy/Girl Friend

October 23, 2010 By Leave a Comment

Things between you and your partner are completely different after you've split up. Because the past altercations always come between you, your partner might find it difficult to talk to you again. Relationship separations are stressful. Especially if ill feelings are still there, you might find it hard to get involved with your ex again.

A person wants spend his life with another person who loves him. That's why thinking you've got a relationship that will last and losing it after all your efforts is the worst thing that could occur. Now you have to face the fact that you have broken up. Is there a way to fix things so that you can be together with your ex again? You can definitely start over if you and your ex can find a way to meet up and talk normally all over again. A break up is not always the end, particularly if there are still a lot of things you haven't tried to get your ex back. It's possible to reconcile with your ex.

The ending of a relationship is one of the events that you and that person will go through before you finally admit that you really are meant for each other. If you're committed to getting your ex back, you should never be passive about your strategy. If you were the one that instigated the break up, expect to be the one who will work hardest to bring the relationship back to life.

Here are some things you can do to bring back your ex.

Step 1: Meeting up with your ex should be your top priority now.

You may have to enlist the help of your common friends for you to meet your ex again. Make the meeting seem like an accident so that your ex will have his or her guard down. You can also arrange the meeting yourself by calling your ex.

Step 2. Never talk about negative topics.

Fighting or aggression is stressful and most people will avoid it at all cost. If you're raring for a fight, don't meet with your ex. Keep in mind that it took effort to get your ex to meet you so you shouldn't waste it. If you keep bringing up the things that led to your break up, your ex will not feel like talking to you.

Step 3. Show your sincerity.

Being with your ex again is a dream come true so don't hesitate to let your feelings show even just a bit. Make sure your ex gets your message of a truce and reconciliation. Convey through your words and actions that you intend to stay for keeps this time. After you have stated your case, let your ex talk about his or her feelings too.

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